Children are seen through the 5th house in the astrology chart. Jupiter is the significator for children while the Sun indicates the father and the Moon indicates the mother. While researching about parenting, it is very important to look at the 2nd and 4th house of home and family too.
These are the signs rules the 5th house for each Lagna and its ruler
Aries: Leo: Sun
Taurus: Virgo: Mercury
Gemini: Libra; Venus
Cancer: Scorpio: Mars
Leo: Sagittarius: Jupiter
Virgo: Capricorn: Saturn
Libra: Aquarius: Saturn
Scorpio: Pisces: Jupiter
Sagittarius: Aries: Mars
Capricorn: Taurus: Venus
Aquarius: Gemini: Mercury
Pisces: Cancer: Moon
According to your lagna, the 5th sign and the planet which represents is the first clue for your children. The nature of the planet, the sign and the house which it is placed, and if you are an advance astrology lover, then you can go into the details of the nakshathra as well. When these planets are in a compromising placement, that surely indicates difficulty in a parent child relationship.
In a child’s chart, when the lagna lord’s relationship with the Sun and Moon is compromised, then there will be relationship issues or struggles in the relationship.
As Astro-psychology is a growing stream these days, there is a lot of research going on to identify the characteristics of people through a mix of astrology and psychology. According to this stream people are supposed to have different temperaments. Temperament can show you what the personality traits are.
Choleric (bad-tempered): Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
Melancholy(feeling of sadness ): Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn
Sanguine ( optimistic or positive): Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
Phlegmatic (having an unemotional and stolidly calm disposition ): Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
Choleric: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
If your child’s Lagna is coming under a choleric sign, they are more self-reliant. You should note that these signs are fire and male signs ruled by male planets, Mars, Sun and Jupiter respectively. A choleric child may not like restrictions. This child will like to move ahead on his own. It is always good to have self-reliant, but there should be some restrictions. The Fire element should be controlled through mother’s love and father’s advice. Relationship with father can be seen through the placement of the Sun and relationship of mother can be seen through the placement of the Moon. Find whether the Sun and the Moon are in good place with the lagna and lagna lord.
For, these signs their 4th house of mother and family is ruled by water signs and the 9th house of the father is ruled by fire signs also. So, naturally these children coming under fire element the relationship with the mother and father can be very transformative. When a fire element dominated child goes to his mother who is dominated by the water element naturally there can be a combustion. So, the mother will have to go an extra mile in keeping unity with this child.
Melancholy: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn
These signs are earth signs, they are fixed sign so, the child will take time to transform. He may not like sudden changes in the existing system and they may like to go an extra mile in bringing perfection into their life. They may not be reflected or responsive like fire or air signs, they like to be themselves. This passion for perfection can bring a lot of critical analysis into their genes and parents may feel that the child is not respecting their efforts. These children may like to be their own and others can feel that they are introverts. Parents should understand that they all need to upgrade themselves as this is the time of digital natives. These children always like to update them if the lagna lords are in good placement.
The 4th house of mother and family for these kids are ruled by fire signs and the 9th house of father is ruled by earth signs. The general nature of the compatibility between children and parents can be seen through the friendship rate between the lagna lord of child and lord of 4th and the 9th house.
Sanguine: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
These are air signs and these signs represents happiness and sociable nature like air being free flowing. These kids are generally happy, fashionable and sociable, which is a very good character, but parents should be very alert in understanding them as their social circle can be very wide. Parents must be always being youngsters to meet reach the expectations of this child. An old-fashioned parent may not be a success in guiding your Sanguine child.
The 4th house of mother and family Sanguine child is ruled by earth sign, which is a sign for introversion and critical analysis and desire for perfection. Relationship with mother can become complex for this child. Mother can be perfectionist, but the child is easy going and they don’t come within the control of the mother easily because the child is ruled by air element. The 9th house of father is air element itself, so they naturally are drawn towards their father. So, for them father is highly influential in their life. So, the father should take the lead.
Phlegmatic: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
These are water signs and the kids will have a phlegmatic temperament. Cancer is shallow water, Scorpio is the deep waters and Pisces is the deepest. These kids may not like to get disturbed. They just want to flow as they are. There is one funda behind treating this child.
The 4th house of mother and family for these kind of kids are ruled by air signs and the 9th house of father is ruled by Water signs. For these kids, their relationship with the parents will be highly transformative.
Courtesy : JayaSree (Consultant Astrologer)